{"id":5542,"date":"2022-07-17T23:59:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-17T23:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/weazel-news.online\/?p=5542"},"modified":"2022-08-26T02:28:23","modified_gmt":"2022-08-26T07:28:23","slug":"dear-dolores-shes-sending-mixed-signals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/weazel-news.online\/index.php\/2022\/07\/17\/dear-dolores-shes-sending-mixed-signals\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Dolores: She&#8217;s Sending Mixed Signals"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Dear Dolores,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the past several months I&#8217;ve been trying to be with this woman. Every time I ask, I am denied. She continues to send mixed signals, getting my hopes up, and then goes out and ignores me. I adore her. I care about her. I&#8217;d love nothing more than to be able to call her my own so we could spend the rest of our lives together. We both have an interest, we&#8217;ve spoken about it, I&#8217;m just not sure what to do. Every time I feel like we&#8217;re getting somewhere, she ends up in a relationship with someone else and I feel like I&#8217;m a last resort if there&#8217;s no one else&#8230; I have no idea what to do, I really care about her, and I really do like her. Please help.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u2014&nbsp;Twitter Warrior<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Dear Twitter Warrior,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I am sorry, man. Have a seat. Welcome to Auntie Dolores\u2019 Tough Love Seminar for the Hard Headed. This woman is not interested in you and has no intention of being with you. You are wasting your time pursuing this person. This does not mean you\u2019re not amazing and it doesn\u2019t mean you won\u2019t make a great partner to someone else. I\u2019m sure you\u2019re great and I am sure there are plenty of ladies who would be interested, but this particular one is not. Let\u2019s break it down:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>\u201cEvery time I ask, I am denied.\u201d &#8211; This should be your stopping point. She already told you.&nbsp;<\/em><\/li><li><em>\u201cShe continues to send mixed signals\u201d &#8211; I have to ask, are her \u201cmixed signals\u201d flirting or just communicating with you? If she is not returning your interest the same way you do hers, she is not interested in you in the same way.&nbsp;<\/em><\/li><li><em>\u201cWe both have an interest, we&#8217;ve spoken about it\u201d &#8211; Unfortunately, it\u2019s not what you say in these situations, it\u2019s what you do.&nbsp;<\/em><\/li><li><em>\u201cEvery time I feel like we&#8217;re getting somewhere, she ends up in a relationship with someone else\u201d &#8211; This is the \u201cwhat you do\u201d that I mentioned. When she finds herself single, she does not think of you.&nbsp;<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><em><\/em><em>Twitter Warrior, you are worth more than what this woman is valuing you. Let her go and invest your time and care into someone who will give it back. I\u2019m rooting for you!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u2014&nbsp;<\/strong><em><strong>Love, Dolores<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Submit A Question To Dear Dolores<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This is for informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for medical advice. Please consult YOUR health care professional if you have questions or concerns about your physical and\/or mental health. I am not liable for any action you take as a result of reading answers provided to others or to you directly. By filling out this form you are consenting to having your question posted on this page. If your question contains&nbsp;personally identifying information I will remove it or change it to protect your privacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSdLv_Skq2oGglbMx4F5gJn4uvsqfS7tOLLvIpY4AsGcDSRS-Q\/viewform?embedded=true\" width=\"640\" height=\"850\" frameborder=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\">Loading\u2026<\/iframe>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Dolores, For the past several months I&#8217;ve been trying to be with this woman. Every time I ask, I am denied. She continues to send mixed signals, getting my hopes up, and then goes out and ignores me. I adore her. I care about her. 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